If you’re dating join the club! Im currently putting myself out there in the dating game and what I want to say about that is online dating is a mind field!
My mindset around dating has been different as of late. I’ve created a radical dating mindset that encourages me to put myself first, honor my boundaries and not just allow anyone in just because they show me attention.
If you’re also dating I’d like to share what are the important factors in creating a positive, revolutionary mindset to the dating process to be able to look at it from a different perspective. A perspective that allows you to be yourself, meet different people and know that dating is about being brave enough to put yourself out there in order to meet new people with boundary setting.
Becoming aware of your own red flags and green flags. When you know what you’re looking for it becomes easy to leave behind those who do not fit your bill. Being a single working mom, I have no time to waist! How about you?
When we know what we want in a partner we allow ourselves to become the chooser. We allow ourselves to tap into our power instead of adhering to only others wants and needs. In the past I would just go with whatever came to me. Whoever showed me the least bit of attention I would lap it up like a thirsty puppy waiting for its milk. I realize today that i was coming from a place of lack.
Are you coming from a place of lack? If you are really honest with yourself, You can understand and become aware of your intentions. This is paramount. What are you looking for? Who are you looking for? And why do you want a person and relationship?
Is it to fill a void?
Are you trying to cover up loneliness?
What do you need to let go of in order to gain back your power and become the chooser in your dating pla