Are You Single and Looking?

I want to ask you a question!

Why are you single?

  • Is it because you simply choose to be?
  • Are you getting over a break up?
  • Are you taking time to focus on you?
  • Or, are you having difficulty finding the right person?

Personally, I am taking time out to focus on me because I believe when I focus on my own growth I can better attract the right person.

Which ever it is for you, know that its ok and that you are ok just the way you are. The first step towards unblocking limiting beliefs is becoming aware of how you’re feeling and why. Then, you need to practice acceptance. When we are not happy, satisfied or fulfilled in any area of our life, it’s because there is some kind of internal subconscious block holding us back and it usually comes from childhood.

I used to think that love is simply too complicated to deal with. Love in the romantic sense, so, I just stayed away from it. For a long time I’ve been single and most of it has been my choice. Today though, I believe I am ready and open to meeting new people. What ever situation you find yourself in regarding love, there is a reason for it. We’re always making a choice in every moment of our lives, regardless if its conscious or not. The power of change and transformation comes in becoming aware of the choices we are making, then we have the power to choose differently.

Part of my choice to be single was due to past hurt and failed relationships. In a way I have been trying to protect my heart by staying away, isolating and building walls around me and my precious heart. And, although this has served me in the past, today I know this is not positive in the long run nor does it serve me.


  • Because people were not meant to live alone in isolation.
  • Isolation leads to depression
  • Isolation leads to disconnection from self and others.
  • People need connection to thrive and grow.
  • There is power in numbers.
  • Love is everything good and right with this world. It’s what we need and more importantly, life is about putting ourselves out there despite of the prospect of getting hurt.

My point is with the right person you can learn to grow, evolve and thrive in a loving romantic relationship instead of living in the fear of getting hurt as it was for me. Even if you ‘re not sure why you’re making the love choices you are presently, you can learn the reason for it.

If you’re not happy with your current love situation you probably have some subconscious blocks holding you back. The problem is never outside and always comes from inside.

I help identify and remove subconscious blocks holding you back from attracting the love that you want. Whatever the case, drop me a message and let me know if you identify with any of this!

There are no guarantees in love and yes, you may drown! But dear one, with the right person, what if you could swim?

5 Comments Add yours

  1. Godfreykuma says:

    Really great article Christina. Many thanks sharing such informative thought.

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  2. Kalvin Cinco says:

    Insightful and useful article for me Christina. I have lately been focusing on becoming a better me and believe that in doing so I will attract the right person at the right time. I’m working on removing my limiting beliefs as well and reframing how I see relationships. Great post!.

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    1. Thank you for your like and comment! im happy to hear that you got something out of my post. thats always a pleasure to hear since its the intent of my blog. Sounds like you are doing some real work on getting more of what you want and deserve! good luck! thats the way to go. look within for answers. they are always there. we just need to become aware of them.

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